The Dream Comes True in a Second Marriage

The dream of romance can come true in a second marriage. It did for me. I does for many - but not without a price. First, you need to look on sites such as MyFutureSpouse.com. Not, on dating and party sites. The truth is the same anywhere. You don't find a good husband at a bar. You don't find one on a site that attracts men by promoting sex.

Internet dating can be tricky. Many of them have spam and bait profiles. Once you hit the site and pay for a profile, you find there are no more of those 'dream picks.' All members should be held accountable.

I meant my second husband at a singles retreat for older people. We each had to attend seminars on developing good relationships. More over, they kept tight reign on the way we were promoting ourselves. There were accurate profiles that forced us to be honest. When dating online, it is imperative that you only use sites which force members to be honest.

One great feature that MyFutureSpouse.com offers is a forum for members. Members can mingle and chat in the forums. This lets you see who has been around for awhile, who is boasting, who is honest, and who is looking for a good time vs who is looking for a future spouse.

It is not wrong to want to be in a relationship. It is totally normal. Love is something that can be developed by like minded people. My husband and I wanted to start a new life. We worked hard to become friends, then we learned to build a good relationship. Now, we are happy, and enjoying the elusive 'love relationship' that most people never enjoy. Yet - we started at an 'old' version of the dating site, just proof that it does work.